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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • I think this is a great thing to talk more openly about!

    I have an at-home laser hair removal device (https://us.braun.com/en-us/female-hair-removal/ipls/silk-expert-pro-5-pl5157) that I use on my legs, armpits, bikini line, and boobs. I also use a razor to touch up legs, armpits, and bikini area when I need to. The hair in these areas is a lot slower to grow & more fine than it used to be before I started using the laser device, but it does still come back.

    I can’t imagine being the type of person who takes pubic hair removal seriously though. I’ve just got too much and it grows too fast and my skin is way too sensitive to handle it. As someone that isn’t in a relationship and not super into hookups, my perspective is: if you’re going down there you’re welcome and you’re one of the lucky few. I’m not about to cause myself constant discomfort just so my occasional sexual partners have a view of my genitals that they may or may not find more aesthetically pleasing. The idea of putting in all that time, effort, money, and discomfort just so that my vag can look like a child’s is a fucking no for me.

    No judgement towards those that do it! Just could never be me.






  • It varies based on local legislation, so in some places paying ransoms is banned but it’s by no means universal. It’s totally valid to be against paying ransoms wherever possible, but it’s not entirely black and white in some situations.

    For example, what if a hospital gets ransomed? Say they serve an area not served by other facilities, and if they can’t get back online quickly people will die? Sounds dramatic, but critical public services get ransomed all the time and there are undeniable real world consequences. Recovery from ransomware can cost significantly more than a ransom payment if you’re not prepared. It can also take months to years to recover, especially if you’re simultaneously fighting to evict a persistent (annoyed, unpaid) threat actor from your environment.

    For the record I don’t think ransoms should be paid in most scenarios, but I do think there is some nuance to consider here.










  • I actually have a related question that I’m curious to hear takes on. I’m a leftist, and I own a 1-bed apartment where two good friends of mine rent the apartment right next door. Their landlord is planning to sell next year, and they don’t have the ability to buy it. So depending on who does buy the place, my friends could be out of a home. My sister and I could combine finances to buy their unit (with a mortgage), and ensure that my friends could stay where they are. This would be a bit of a financial burden but doable, and we would need to charge rent to pay back the mortgage.

    Would this be a net good or a net evil? I feel very conflicted about potentially being a landlord (especially for friends) but also don’t want them to need to move.






  • The way this man goes from maniacally driven to bring the monster to life to immediately swooning with disgust and horror once he succeeded is wild. He truly refused to think about the consequences of his actions. Victor Frankenstein is a shortsighted coward. Justice for the wretch!