if you really give off “good person” vibes, there’s a chance that they might introduce you to someone. Hard disagree. Woman might say they want ‘good person’ vibes but the reality is that when someone feels ‘too safe’ they get turned off. No real advice to you OP, but know that woman desire men that make them feel uncomfortable. Not uncomfortable as in ‘this guy is stalking me’ but as in ‘this guy is mostly a nice guy but has a mysterious and maybe scary side that turns me on’.

What an insensitive and idiotic thing to say to someone struggling. Get your mind checked.

Generally speaking, I think you’re right. Herbs and spices are safe. But I wanted to add a caveat: caution is always a good idea. You could damage organs like the liver or kidneys, specially if you have an issue with them.

For example, too much turmeric can result in liver damage: https://www.jeffersonhealth.org/your-health/living-well/the-trouble-with-turmeric-associated-liver-injuries

Another example: Rooibos tea is awesome but there’s this guy who drank a bit too much, and ended with liver failure: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4435260/#B4 There are more reports of hepatoxicity here: https://www.mskcc.org/cancer-care/integrative-medicine/herbs/rooibos-tea