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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • Don’t give up! It’s objectively harder to reach the “feeling good” stage in comparison to the man-handle, because if you’re tense, the muscle in there hurts because it tenses and is really strong. It tensing around something non-soft, makes it hurt, it hurting makes you panic, and you panicking makes you tense more.

    And when you’re panicking and hurting, you can’t really get horny. Instead you have to work it and explore it slowly, so you’re relaxed throughout, in order to reach the feel-good stage first, and then it’s mostly downhill from there haha




  • Sounds to me like you weren’t dumb, you were just doing a bunch of Shit trying to heal from a shitty hand dealt by life. Healing requires dumb shit I believe. Were you not doing your best by the people around you? That’s what I would call dumb shit instead, if so, yeah.

    But your comment shows a really stand-up side of you, so damn, congrats on becoming this person after all.


  • If you’re a quasi-rich sociopathic pedophile, it pays dividends to get richer, to be able to avoid consequences.

    That’s a general rule in capitalism and maybe society in general. If there’s a way to receive less consequences for shitty acts, those that want to do shitty acts will flock to that path.

    The shitty acts then becomes a pseudo-reward for power, and community forms around that.


  • Because you seem like a person wanting to learn and not a bot, here is a video by John Oliver, 6 years ago, about the actual local situation in Everest.

    The causes will be varied, and the housing market is not threatened in Everest because tourists don’t use houses in Everest the way tourists use houses in Europe (Airbnb), but they’re is always incredible damage in whatever thing, local owners use tourist money, to fuck local workers about, not caring for the Shit and damage left behind. In the case is Everest, that Shit is literal. In other places, that Shit is off-season ghost towns, underfunded schools and local necessities, and corrupt local politicians.

    This is just capitalism by design, it’s not unique to tourism. It IS the owner’s fault, not the tourist’s, but the tourist buys the meal that the local no longer can afford, because tourists by definition go be tourists in cheaper countries than their own. Do you understand what that means? The locals that serve the tourists, get so little money in comparison, that it’s not even funny.


  • Tourism economy is the best economy, for the tourists and their white western touristy values, not the working exploited local class who gets priced out of their life by rich owners.

    Rich owners get disproportionally richer by tourist money (by definition much more than the locals, because that’s what makes tourism possible), and then the local economy bends around them.

    “It’s up to locals to learn to manage it well and not get corrupted” - my brother in Christ this is basic individualism and victim blaming in a trenchcoat. “Corruption” isn’t a magical thing, it happens because of the proportionally obscene extra money in the pockets of the few.

    It’s basically this: tourism doesn’t happen between equals, and the money of the richer tourists goes down the road all money does in capitalism. Concentrated further unless redistributed via politics, and politics bends to money over time.

    If you live in tourist towns, as in going around exploring instead of having your future stolen and become nearly unable to both live and leave, you’re part of the people rich enough to enjoy the benefits, whether you know it or not.